June 2011
11 posts
On How To Give Unconditional Support →
I’ve gotten a lot of comments on how great a friend I am to Ashley thru all of this Bachelorette mumbo jumbo but in reality I feel like I’m not doing enough.  I could sit here all day and peruse twitter, message boards, and facebook and try to convince everyone how awesome she is but at the end of the day, I feel like y’all think I’m just supportive because I knew her on my...
Jun 30th
9 notes
Ding Dong the Douche is Gone!!!
So the gang is in Hong Kong and Chris Harrison has some bad news… The devil arrives to tell Ashley that the dot dot dot (it’s an ellipsis you idiot) should be a period.  Mostly he does a lot of stumbling over his words, grabbing Ashley’s leg, and basically saying nothing.  He could have done all this over the phone.  They have phones in Utah right? Ashley seems to realize...
Jun 28th
17 notes
How to Erase the Bentleys in our Lives...
In honor of Bentley’s return, and hopefully Ashley sending him home with a rose thorn up the rear, I wanted to just say a little bit about breakups and spending too much time on a guy that isn’t good for you… WE’VE ALL DONE IT. Seriously, I don’t know a girl that hasn’t obsessed over someone that wasn’t good for her, or wasted her time on a guy that wasn’t that into her.  I mean really people;...
Jun 27th
17 notes
Hit Me With Your Best Shot (JK) - Ames
Ladies and Gentleman, we have hit a major detour on the road to love. This week Ash and her paramours hit the road to Chiang Mai to hopefully leave the memories of #BadNewsBentley in the dust but his presence was still hanging heavy throughout this episode. I know it’s frustrating many viewers to watch Ashley hold on to a douchebag for so long, but I can only hope that after next week we...
Jun 21st
17 notes
What I Would Have Done with Dad...
I cannot tell y’all how thankful I am for the responses I got from my Father’s Day post.  I almost feel like I have a little support group going :) and I read so many touching stories that made me laugh and cry!  Y’all gave me the strength to try and put a positive spin on yesterday’s festivities so I decided to do all the things I would have done with my Dad if he would...
Jun 20th
9 notes
Father's Day Without a Dad
My favorite picture of my Dad and I Father’s Day is coming up this Sunday and I always have a little feeling of dread when it comes around.  It’s so hard to escape the loving moments I see all around me on that day and not hole my self up in my room to avoid the feeling I know is going to make me sad – I no longer have a dad to celebrate with.   He was very good at making people laugh :) It still...
Jun 16th
14 notes
lauralou24 asked: Hey Ashley!

First of all I LOVE your blog! I think you're an amazing writer and super funny!!
I've come to ask you some advice because of how you and your boyfriend met each other. I was on facebook searching a name the other day and another guys name came up and we had a mutual friend. I lurked his page a bit to see who our mutual friend was and it turns out he is...
Jun 15th
4 notes
Thailand is for lovers, and Robots!
This week started off with all the guys sitting around waiting for the date card.  West was wearing an unfortunate hat when Chris Harrison announced that there would be no date card because they were heading to THAILAND!!!  Ryan was psyched!!! I have to admit, Ryan’s enthusiasm is a little annoying.  He’s just so psyched about life that he doesn’t notice that he’s not...
Jun 14th
18 notes
Pretty Sure Bentley is the Devil...
So I had a lot of mixed emotions about last night’s episode.  I had been warned by Ashley that things with Bentley would get worse, but I never imagined he would say the awful things that he did last night.  He gives the male species a horrible name, and I hope every girl that was watching last night paid attention - DO NOT DATE THIS TYPE OF GUY!  They know the right things to say to you to...
Jun 7th
22 notes
Jun 3rd
22 notes
Vlogging for the Bachelorette: Part Deux
Here’s my second vlog for the Bachelor/Bachelorette website. I don’t endorse violence but seriously, who doesn’t want to punch Bentley in the face?
Jun 2nd
9 notes